Treat the girls behind the page

Buy one of the hosts a coffee, pick a gift from her wishlist, or chip in towards something bigger. Payments are handled securely through Stripe, and we arrange delivery to the hosts, so their addresses always stay private.

How it works

Choose a hostSee the gifts she picked herself.
Pick a giftPay securely by card through Stripe. We buy the gift and deliver it to her, so her address stays private.
She opens itLook out for unboxings and shout-outs on TikTok.

Buy her a coffee

The quickest way to say thanks. Payments go to the Naomi BWEM Gift Room, and the host you've chosen receives her share so she can grab a coffee on you.

Talk to a host

Ask the host you've chosen a question or get a personalised video shout-out on TikTok. Everything is paid for securely through Stripe, so nobody's phone number or personal account is shared.

House rules: keep it friendly and respectful. Hosts can decline any request, and declined requests are refunded. Requests for personal contact details, meet-ups or explicit content will be refused.

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Terms of service

Last updated: 17 October 2026

1. About us

The Naomi BWEM Gift Room (“the Gift Room”) is run by Naomibwem, a UK sole trader business (“we”, “us”, “our”). You can contact us by email at naomibwem@gmail.com. We are based in Birmingham, UK.

These terms apply whenever you make a payment through the Gift Room. Please read them before you pay. By paying, you agree to them. Nothing in these terms affects your legal rights as a consumer.

2. Who can use the Gift Room

You must be 18 or over to make a payment, ask a question or request a shout-out.

3. The hosts

The hosts are the creators who appear on the @naomibwem TikTok account. We collect payments on their behalf, buy and deliver gifts to them, and pass each host an agreed share of the coffees, questions and shout-outs paid for in her name.

Gifts and payments are a way of saying thank you. They do not buy private contact with a host, her personal contact details, meetings, or any content or service beyond what is described on the Gift Room.

4. What you can buy

Gifts: an item from a host’s wishlist, which we buy and deliver to her.
Group gift contributions: an amount of your choice towards a larger gift for a host.
Coffees: a fixed amount sent as a thank-you to the host you choose.
Priority questions: a question the host aims to answer in a TikTok LIVE or video.
Personalised video shout-outs: a short video from the host, posted publicly on the @naomibwem TikTok account.

5. Prices and payment

All prices are in pounds sterling (GBP) and are the total amount you pay. Payments are processed securely by Stripe. We never see or store your full card details. Payments show as Naomibwem at checkout and on your bank statement.

Product names, photos, prices and links to retailers on the Gift Room are for guidance. Retailers can change their prices and stock at any time.

6. Gifts

When you pay for a gift, we order it from a retailer and arrange delivery to the host. We aim to place the order within 7 days of your payment, and the item normally arrives with the host within 30 days. Hosts’ addresses are never shared with buyers.

If the item you chose is unavailable or now costs more than you paid, we will either buy a similar item of equal or greater value for the same host, or refund you in full. We will email you if this happens, and you can choose a refund instead of a substitute.

7. Group gifts

Group gift contributions are pooled towards the item shown. If a group gift reaches its target, we buy it and deliver it to the host. Any amount raised above the cost of the item goes towards the next gift for the same host.

If a group gift has not reached its target within 90 days of the first contribution, we will either put the money raised towards a smaller gift for the same host or, if you ask us within 14 days of us telling you, refund your contribution.

8. Coffees

A coffee is a voluntary thank-you payment. The host you choose receives her agreed share. Because coffees are passed on to hosts promptly, they are not refundable except where a payment was made by mistake and you tell us within 14 days.

9. Priority questions and shout-outs

When you pay for a priority question or shout-out, you will be asked to write your question or request. It must follow the house rules in section 10.

Hosts aim to answer priority questions within 14 days, in a TikTok LIVE or video. Your first name or username may be read out with your question. If you would rather stay anonymous, say so in your request.
Shout-outs are normally posted on the @naomibwem TikTok within 7 days. They are public, so anyone can see them. The name or username you give will be said or shown in the video, and you should not include anything you would not want made public.
A host may decline any request. If she does, or if your question or shout-out is not delivered within the times above, we will refund you in full.

Shout-outs remain part of the @naomibwem TikTok account and may be removed at any time. You are welcome to share the link, but you may not download and re-upload them, sell them, use them in advertising, or edit them to misrepresent the host.

10. House rules

Questions and requests must be friendly and respectful. We will refuse, and refund, any request that:

asks for a host’s personal contact details, location, or a meeting,
is sexual, explicit or suggestive,
is abusive, threatening, hateful or harassing,
involves anything illegal, or impersonates someone else,
asks a host to promote a business or product without our agreement.

We may block anyone who repeatedly breaks these rules from making further payments.

11. Your right to cancel

You can cancel a gift for a full refund at any time before we have ordered it. Once a gift has been ordered, you can still cancel within 14 days of it being delivered to the host, and we will refund you once we have been able to return the item to the retailer, minus any return costs the retailer charges. Personalised or made-to-order items cannot be cancelled once ordered.

For priority questions and shout-outs, you can cancel for a full refund until the host starts working on your request. By paying, you ask us to begin straight away, and you agree that you lose the right to cancel once your question has been answered or your shout-out has been posted.

To cancel, email us at naomibwem@gmail.com with the email address you used to pay.

12. Refunds

Refunds are made to the card or payment method you used, normally within 14 days of us agreeing the refund. Your bank may take a few extra days to show it.

13. Our responsibility to you

We are responsible for foreseeable loss you suffer because we break these terms or fail to use reasonable care and skill. We are not responsible for delays or problems caused by events outside our reasonable control, such as retailer or courier delays. Our total liability to you for any payment is limited to the amount you paid. Nothing in these terms limits our liability for death or personal injury caused by our negligence, for fraud, or for anything else that cannot be limited by law.

14. Content and images

Photos of the hosts belong to them and are used with their permission. You may not copy or reuse content from the Gift Room without our permission.

15. Complaints

If you are unhappy with anything, please email naomibwem@gmail.com. We aim to reply within 5 working days and to resolve complaints within 14 days.

16. Changes to these terms

We may update these terms from time to time. The version shown when you make a payment is the one that applies to it.

17. Law

These terms are governed by the law of England and Wales. If you live in Scotland or Northern Ireland, you can also bring proceedings in your local courts.

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Privacy policy

Last updated: 17 October 2026

1. Who we are

The Naomi BWEM Gift Room is run by Naomibwem, a UK sole trader business. We are the “controller” responsible for your personal information under UK data protection law. Contact us at naomibwem@gmail.com. We are based in Birmingham, UK.

2. What we collect

Payment details: when you pay, Stripe collects your name, email address and card details. Stripe shares your name, email, the amount, and limited card information (such as the card type and last four digits) with us. We never receive your full card number.
Your order: which host and gift you chose, and the gift reference added to your payment.
Your messages: any question, video request or note you write at checkout.
Emails: anything you send us when you contact us.
Technical information: the Gift Room does not use advertising or tracking cookies. Like any website, the services that host the site and load its fonts (including Google Fonts) receive basic technical information such as your IP address so that the page can load.

3. How we use it, and why

To process your payment and deliver what you paid for (buying and delivering gifts, passing questions and requests to hosts, posting shout-outs, handling refunds). Our lawful basis is performing our contract with you.
To keep business and tax records. Our lawful basis is complying with our legal obligations.
To prevent fraud, enforce our house rules and handle disputes or chargebacks. Our lawful basis is our legitimate interest in running the Gift Room safely.
To show your first name on the “Recently gifted” wall. We only do this if you agree. Otherwise we show “Anonymous”. You can ask us to remove your name at any time.

We do not sell your information, and we do not send marketing emails.

4. Who we share it with

Stripe, which processes payments. Stripe’s own privacy policy also applies to the information it collects.
Hosts, who receive your first name or username and your question or request so they can respond. They never receive your email address or payment details.
The public, on TikTok: priority questions and shout-outs are answered publicly on the @naomibwem TikTok account, so the name or username you give, and your question or request, may be seen by anyone who watches.
Retailers and couriers, to order and deliver gifts to hosts. We do not normally share your details with them.
Professional advisers, such as an accountant, and authorities where the law requires it.

5. International transfers

Some of our service providers, including Stripe, may process information outside the UK. Where they do, they use safeguards approved under UK data protection law.

6. How long we keep it

Payment and tax records: 6 years, as required for tax purposes.
Questions and shout-out requests: 12 months after they are completed or refunded. Videos posted on TikTok stay there until the account removes them.
Emails you send us: up to 2 years after we last hear from you.

7. Keeping it safe

Payments are handled by Stripe, which is certified to the highest industry security standard for card payments. We keep the information we receive in password-protected accounts that only we can access, and we only share it as described above.

8. Your rights

You have the right to ask for a copy of your information, to have it corrected or deleted, to restrict or object to how we use it, to have it transferred, and to withdraw any consent you have given. Email naomibwem@gmail.com to use these rights. We will reply within one month.

If you are unhappy with how we have handled your information, you can complain to the Information Commissioner’s Office at ico.org.uk. We would appreciate the chance to put things right first.

9. Children

The Gift Room is not intended for anyone under 18, and we do not knowingly collect information from children.

10. Changes

We may update this policy from time to time. The date at the top shows when it last changed.

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